VUG

Q: What is a VUG?
A: An open cavity in rock, often lined with crystals.
In other words, inspired space where diverse energies collaborate to create dazzling gems.

Wednesday, November 20, 2013

Girls+Engineering=Fun

To all the inspiringly brilliant, 
knock-your-socks-off-creative 
girls out there... 

This one's for you!

Watch Video Here: Engineering Toys for Girls

Friday, November 8, 2013

Innovating Sustainability

If you like cars, are intrigued by the evolution of potentially disruptive technologies, or are always looking for ways to be more ecologically aware (or all three!), this article from Popular Mechanics about the first 3D printed car, the Urbee 2, is worth a read.  

It's a great story of collaboration, dedication, passionate pursuits and innovation.  Interesting gems are littered throughout, like this quote from Jim Kor, founder of Kor Ecologic:

"...designing for sustainability can arguably be stated to be humanity’s biggest and most important challenge of the coming century. It’s something we absolutely need to get right.” 

Innovating with sustainability at the core.  Well, that pretty much sums it up.  And since every little bit counts - from recycling daily to producing an entirely new automobile - the possibilities are endless. 

Where will you start?





Friday, October 11, 2013

Passionate Pursuits

Just read Tim Brown's post on LinkedIn about SuperJam.  

It's a great story, and Mr. Brown's closing thought that "simple ideas, pursued with passion, can result in sweetly successful businesses" is super-inspiring food for thought.

What took my thinking to the next level, however, is the comment from Christopher Fun (yes, sometimes those comments do produce a gem).

Mr. Fun writes, " 'Simple ideas pursued with passion, can result in sweetly successful business'... Question is how many pursue their work with passion v only be passionate about its results[?]"

Hmmm...Passionate Pursuit for the Pure Pursuit of Passion.  Now that is food for thought (incredibly unoriginal pun intended).




Thursday, March 21, 2013

On Dolphins and Dreams



When I was 10, I wanted to be a marine biologist. I wanted to study whales and swim with dolphins. I knew it would require getting a college degree, and while I did not fully understand what that meant (no one in my family had gone to college), the idea was cemented that college was the path to the work I wanted to do. 

My marine biology dream was put on the shelf a couple years later because, at the ripe old age of 12, I decided that since I did not live by the ocean, being a marine biologist was not a realistic possibility.  And while my logic for not pursuing that dream was flawed, looking back I realize my commitment to going to college was secure.  What I could not have anticipated at the time though, was just how much I would gain from my college education.  It was so much more than a necessary step down a career path.

A college education is not simply a means to an end.  It is part of our individual evolution, and what we get out of it is personal and unique to us.  Consider this:

In college:

  We choose, often for the first time, what we will study. 
  We are introduced to new ideas, different perspectives, and challenging situations that require us to analyze how we feel about certain issues, and why.
  We get to practice integrating new concepts and unfamiliar approaches with familiar ideals in a safe environment where learning is what is expected of us.
  We develop tools to cope with these challenges, and to continue to grow into them as time goes on.

This daily practice of integrating what we learn - from professors in class, from new friends with diverse backgrounds, and from the extracurricular activities we choose to be a part of - into our personal and professional choices, impacts our future decision-making capability in immeasurable ways.

Like so many others, I approached college as the first step to building a career. Thankfully, though, I also embraced my college education as more than a means to an end.  The critical thinking, concept integration and decision making skills I put to the test in college have helped me every day since in my quest to be my best self: as a woman, a mother, a partner, a successful professional, and a life-long learner. 

Unlike that naive 12-year-old girl who put her dream of swimming with the dolphins on the shelf for what, at the time seemed an insurmountable obstacle, I now know how to consider, analyze, and make the best choices for myself and those I care about.  And I have my college education to thank for it. 

Saturday, February 23, 2013

Define Your SASI - REGISTER TODAY!

Hello Inspiring Girls and Guys!

I am thrilled to announce that Q3's first event is scheduled, the amazing venue is booked, and registration is open!  

Define Your SASI - A Women's Leadership Retreat will take place at the Cable Mountain Lodge in Springdale, Utah, on April 26-27, 2013.

Inspiring women will come together against the inspiring backdrop of Zion Canyon to explore what is absolutely most important for each of us to live a full, soulful life. And we will use what we learn - about ourselves and from each other - to define a very personal version of "SASI."  

Learn more about "SASI" and the retreat at q3international.com. And please, share the event info with every woman you know. The more amazing females with diverse interests, backgrounds, professions and experiences who join us, the better!  Several of the original inspiring girls are already committed and we can't wait to welcome you as well! 

If you would like to receive the PDF flyer to share with your family, friends, and professional network, please leave a comment here or email me at shirlayne@q3international.com.

Register today and we'll see you in Springdale in April!


Sunday, February 17, 2013

Family Day 2013!

Last year at this time, I posted Threads of Family in tribute to our amazing family and the friends who have become family over the years.  

Today marks our Sixth Family Day, and that insightful, attentive 8 1/2 month old little girl is a bustling, book-loving, violin-playing kindergartner.  It's hard to believe we have been "3 Quayles" for five years already. Amazing!

While our family grew officially by one on that February day in Nanchang five years ago, Luji's spirit and wise old soul have brought us so much more.  So many have come together  all because of this this one little girl!  Our family has grown in ways we could not have possibly imagined before, and we are so glad you are each a beautiful part of it.

In the spirit of celebrating five years with this inspiring, sweet, smart, kind, thoughtful, fun, beautiful, amazing child who has forever changed our lives, and brought us unending joy and laughter, please join us in a big, warm, extended family hug!

Thank you for sharing this extraordinary adventure - and Family Day - with us!  

Love, 
3 Quayles 






Sunday, January 6, 2013

Dare Greatly

Happy Sunday, Inspiring Girls and Guys.

There is a new book in my life. I learned about it at the International Leadership Association annual conference in Denver last fall when I heard Dr. Brene Brown speak. I came home, bought her book, and have "finished" it more times than I can count over the last few months.  It's called Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead. I'm reading a couple of books right now but this is the one I keep coming back to because each time I pick it up, I absorb some new insight about a current situation, future plan, or recent action/reaction that sheds light on my personal path to living a soulful life.

It's a book perfectly timed for me. Perhaps it is for you, too. If you have a chance to read it - and I hope you do! - please share the pieces that inspire you with all of us.  On the highest level, Daring Greatly has driven home for me the bare naked fact that having the courage to pursue my dreams really just comes down to being, and believing, in me.  And sometimes that is the most intense kind of vulnerability.  

The quote by Theodore Roosevelt that inspired the book's title is worth sharing. It's written on our chalkboard at home with some of my other favorite quotes, and has become the theme for the way I wish to approach the million and one cool things on my radar - for 2013 and beyond. I hope the quote, and the book if you read it, inspires you, too, to dare greatly!

"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly...who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly."

                                                                                      - Theodore Roosevelt

Saturday, January 5, 2013

Brilliance

Around the world people are celebrating the arrival of a new year (except, of course, in China where the year of the snake rings in on February 10!) with hope, enthusiasm, a renewed sense of love and wishes for peace. What is it about reaching milestones like this that allow a collective "ah" to wash away all that was not accomplished in the past, celebrate what was, and move into the future with vigor and joy?  Every year it's the same, over and over for millennia, collectively.  

Powerful stuff.

Billions of engines create that power. Those very wishes for something better that we each launch at the birth of a year matter.  The energy they create matters. We start full of energy to see through our new hopes and plans. True, our energetic intentions may fade a bit as the year progresses - the type of fuel required may change - but the boost we receive from that initial thrust of high-powered change makes its mark.

At the beginning of 2012, as we settled into our new desert home, my engine was going strong. But my world was changing. I traded in my revered yoga studio for an inspiring desert landscape, and added a new fuel to my commitment to live a soulful life. The brilliant resolution?  Complete 12 runs in 2012. Looking back, I am proud of setting this goal, even though I realize its brilliance was more in line with the shining light at the end of a long tunnel than a disruptively intelligent idea. 

This is how it went: 


February: two runs.  March: one run.  April: one run.  May: one run. June-December:    zero runs.  

Zero runs. Where is the brilliance in that?  The most honest answer I can offer is that, after completing not quite half of my planned goal, I had to admit to myself that running is simply not a soulful experience for me. It does not bring me joy and peace.  It was not how I wished to spend my time.

Bummer. And in the end, brilliant.

By June, we were boating a lot, and it was hot. Realizing I needed to I make a fuel change, I put my running resolution to bed. Jeff found a little workout online that could be done almost anywhere, including in the small space of our air-conditioned living room and on the beach at Lake Powell. So we started doing this little ditty three times each week, and to my surprise, it filled my soulful needs on levels I didn't even realize needed filling! The exercise was great. But the togetherness made it fun! It was fun watching Luji doing her version of the moves right there with us. It was inspiring hearing Jeff cheer me on when my legs were ready to give out. And it was fun watching my hot hubby working hard along with me. We now aim to do this little ditty five days per week, together as much as possible. Brilliant. 

And now I find myself coming full circle...ready to make some soulful decisions about how to harness this profound, new year energy bubbling inside me. Interestingly, I find pieces of it pulling me back to my roots: to one of the original feeders of my soul. Yoga. This year of transition and growth brought a lapse in my practice. I'm ready to bring it back, to welcome a renewed commitment and embrace its powerful flow. To experience the deeply rewarding "ahhh" that accompanies the soul-filling hard word and discipline it requires. Yes. I can almost feel it now.

I wonder what your resolutions at this natural time of transition might be?  What brilliance does your soul desire?  What might this powerful energy mean for you in the year to come?  
Whatever it is, embrace it. Allow it to flow.  

Let time reveal its brilliance.

Thursday, January 3, 2013

Little Packages

Leadership opportunities sometimes come in the smallest packages. And those packages are often not wrapped up nice and neat.  

Perhaps that little box with no bow is the way we respond to our child when faced with an issue we just don't want to deal with at that moment.  Maybe it's a must-have discussion with our spouse, or a work situation or encounter with a friend that feels awkward or off for some reason. Or maybe there is no box: the issue seems too small to need one at all... until you consider it closer and realize the opportunity this little issue presents is massive.  

Sometimes, the package is a creative thought or inspiring quote - something that, at the time it hits you, is simply too powerful to fit inside any box.

With a new year upon us, and wishes for health, happiness and prosperity coming to our family from friends around the world, a quote by Seth Godin struck me, and stuck with me, after I read it last night. Perhaps it stuck because the last year for us was all about embracing discomfort (leaving an institution I love and selling a business that have clothed and fed our family for 18 years, moving to a new town, helping open a new school, writing a bit more, following my passion and launching Q3 (!), sending Luji off to kindergarten)...and the opportunities that have and are developing as a result.  It's been an uncomfortable journey on many levels, but the leadership lessons - at home, in work and in my relationships - make it absolutely worth it.

In his book Tribes: We Need You to Lead Us, Godin writes, "Leadership is scarce because few people are willing to go through the discomfort required to lead. This scarcity makes leadership valuable...It's uncomfortable to stand up in front of strangers.  It's uncomfortable to propose an idea that might fail.  It's uncomfortable to challenge the status quo. It's uncomfortable to resist the urge to settle.  When you identify the discomfort, you've found the place where a leader is needed.  If you're not uncomfortable in your work as a leader, it's almost certain you're not reaching your potential as a leader."

Absorbing this message made me wonder: why do some of us choose to embrace the discomfort of leadership every day, while others choose to avoid it all together?  Do some intentionally (though perhaps unconsciously) seek out uncomfortable situations for their inherent leadership potential as we proceed down our personal leadership paths?  If we do, why?  For the hope of making things better and the rush we get when we do? Is it always healthy to embrace discomfort?  Does opportunity and growth follow the majority of the time?  Why do those who choose to embark on journeys of personal growth and change embrace the discomfort of doing so?  Why is 'resisting the urge to settle' such a  'comfortable' thing for some to do?

What are the implications of the answers to these questions for our families, communities, schools?  What about global economies, our environment and health? 

A new year is all about hope, and change, and growth. It is my hope that leadership will become a bit less scarce. That more of us will be willing to actively embrace the discomfort of challenging the status quo and resisting the urge to settle. That we will each continue our work towards reaching our fullest potential as inspiring leaders and forge a path to making things better. 

It's true that this will require vulnerability and risk, but they are two little packages absolutely worth opening. 


Thursday, December 27, 2012

Peeling Forgiveness

Recently I experienced one of those personal learning moments. You know the type? Incredibly-hard-to-embrace when they are fresh but oh-so-valuable once clarity settles in?

Looking back I can see I'd been moving towards this one for a while. In hindsight the process wasn't pretty and I could have chosen to handle some things differently, but now that I have finally had my moment, I know every step was absolutely necessary.  

The climax took root during a conversation with a new friend (someone my gut tells me I will come to love and adore as our friendship develops). She is genuine, kind, and intelligent, and incredibly real and welcoming. Perhaps that is why, during our conversation, I (being brutally honest and unfiltered as I sometimes tend to be) said something about another person's behavior that stopped me in my tracks. It was accurate, but it was very harsh. As soon as it popped out of my mouth I thought, "Wait. This is not me. I don't say things like that (at least not out loud!)."  Then as a quick follow-up... "But [my new friend] doesn't know that. What must she think?" Then...

"What is really going on here?"

On the drive home I questioned myself about why I would say something so unkind about someone else, regardless of how justified my defenses told me it was. It was disrespectful and hurtful, and honestly, I was ashamed.

Peeling back the layers I began to see it. And I finally had to admit to myself (my biggest supporter and my harshest critic) that I said something hurtful because, at the core, I am deeply disappointed - and have been really hurt - by the way the subject of my comment has treated me. Really hurt.  

But I don't want to feel hurt! 

Peeling away, I found anger with myself for letting me get hurt in the first place. Next, I found anger with her (the perpetrator) for treating me so poorly (I do not and never will understand it). Then, like the kinks and tightness that slowly release during an amazing massage, I felt the negative energy locked up inside begin to evaporate. The weight and intensity of the hurt I had been carrying around faded as each layer peeled away. And forgiveness settled in. 

Forgiveness for her. And for me.  

This latest opportunity to "peel" has reminded me once again that regardless of the challenges others put forth, what matters most is that I stay true to myself.  I'm certainly not perfect and I'll have slip ups more often than I'd like, but taking care to be my caring, loving, forgiving self is what makes me strong and confident and successful. It's what leads me to ultimately see the good in others and remember to appreciate the beauty around me. It's what makes me, me.

And that is worth embracing.






Wednesday, December 12, 2012

Leadership Gift

Good morning Inspiring Girls and Guys!

The last couple of months have included many leadership opportunities and lessons for me personally as I have worked to get to know, understand, and hopefully inspire new friends, clients, and colleagues. I'm guessing it's been similar for you, which leads me to share a post I find myself returning to again and again.

DJ Patil expertly captures the essence of leadership in this Fast Company feature, reposted last month on The One-Page Co. blog.  I'm happy to share with you Patil's thoughts on leadership, and invite you to consider them a special delivery gift, wrapped by IGE with a big, sparkling bow!   

In the business world, management and leadership positions are sometimes confused as one similar entity, but when looked at more closely, it becomes clear the two are not one in the same. A manager’s duties is focused on organization, coordination, and delegation. Great leaders go above and beyond their duties, ultimately motivating and inspiring the entire team.
While not all managers are great leaders, all leaders are great managers.
Recently, DJ Patil, data scientist from Greylock Partners, was briefly featured in Fast Company and gave an intriguing response to changing the strategic direction of a business. “[P]eople think they have to grab the steering wheel and turn the car. I think a better way to think about is, actually, how do you lead through inspiration? Who do you look to for inspiration? ” he said.
Great leaders who inspire their teams have the following traits:
1. Passion
The kind of passion involved in leadership isn’t overbearing and loud; it’s a deep unwavering commitment to an overall mission. A truly great leader is deeply passionate in the company vision, mission, and values. This sort of passion portrayed by a leader is easily shared and emulated by employees, co-workers, and any other individual that comes in contact with a leader. A passionate leader easily connects the dots of the big picture for their company and helps to reinforce the message of its existence to employees.
2. Integrity
No great leader is without integrity. Honesty and consistency of values are vital to the functionality of a company with inspired, innovative employees. An individual who leads with integrity doesn’t need to boast about beliefs and values because they are woven through every action. Companies that value integrity often have a workforce that deeply believes in company values and strives to represent them to the fullest.
3. Engage, listen, empathize
Strong leaders place a high value on the people of their company. Whether it’s by showing interest in their day-to-day activities or by listening to their needs, leaders respect and inspire their employees by remaining connected. The standard for internal communication is generally set by the leader; their personable stance on employee engagement allows for the building of a strong company foundation.
When inspirational leaders aren’t communicating, they’re taking time to listen to the feedback of their employees. True leaders are valued for their ability to empathize.
4. Innovation
If a chain is only as strong as its weakest link, then a company is only as innovative as its leader. Inspiring innovation throughout a company is a task that many managers often fail to accomplish. A truly innovative leader doesn’t just stay ahead of the times with an open and forward-thinking mindset; he or she sets the standard for employees by being a thought leader. This alone is sure to create an awe-inspiring movement toward internal innovation.
5. Energy
An inspiring leader leaves employees feeling motivated and confident. This kind of energyisn’t something that can be created or faked. It’s something that can be felt through an entire brand. Truly passionate and driven leaders are more than motivational speakers, their workforces are usually positive, level-headed, and oozing with passion.
A workforce inspired by excellent leadership is sure to be creative, forward-thinking, and motivated toward the company mission. While not all employers express great leadership qualities, it’s important to take time to recognize and learn from those who do.
What leadership traits do you feel are the most successful when it comes to inspiring innovation?
Joanna Riley Weidenmiller is the CEO and co-founder of The One-Page Co. She earned her bachelor’s in foreign affairs from the University of Virginia and lives in Beijing and San Francisco. Connect with Weidenmiller and 1-Page on Twitter @1pagebizFacebook, and 1-page’s blog.

Thursday, October 4, 2012

Mineral Sunscreen for Kids? Cool.

Hello Inspiring Gs!

If you haven't checked out Fab.com, it's a fun way to see what's trendy in the world of product design. The biggest lesson I've learned: there is literally a market for everything! With a daily sale covering everything from kids to pets to home, and products ranging from furniture to clothing to gadgets, there's always something interesting to see.

Today, this one caught my eye enough to share: Tickle Time mineral sunblock for kids.

Designed by an actress (Anne Heche) and a make-up company (La Bella Donna), it looks easy and fun to use. And really, non-greasy sunscreen?  Great idea! I have to do a little more research of course (SPF protection, etc.), but if all pans out, I might want some for me, too! 

If you've already tried Tickle Time or decide to, let me know how you like it.  I'd love to discover an effective, non-liquid sunblock - for every day protection for Luji and me in our sunbaked environment (I'm constantly on the look out for new options that don't make us stinky or greasy), and especially when air travel is part of our sunny plans.  

Tickle Time may be just the ticket.



Monday, October 1, 2012

Rocks

I have a thing for rocks. I'm not sure when it started or why it's such an innate part of my being, but it is. Rocks hold a sort of majesty for me in a way only nature could impart. 

Maybe it is because I grew up amid ice-cut granite canyons. Maybe it is what drew me to this dramatic desert landscape I now call home. Whatever it is, I embrace it without question but never make a big deal of it. It's not my career. Not my life's focus. It just is.

From as early as I can remember, I've collected rocks. I'm sure my mom and dad had something to do with it: camping and hiking with my family when I was a kid afforded ample opportunities to acquire new specimens, which I of course discarded after a while in favor of not packing them when I moved into my new room, my first apartment, etc.  Once I settled into adulthood and began spending time outdoors again, that impulse to gather the ones that have a story to tell, the rocks that seemingly jump out at me from amid their peers with their unique colors and patterns, was reawakened. Any road trip, camping trip, or day of hiking will find me coming home with a few rocks in my pocket.

And much to my delight - Luji shares my passion for appreciating and collecting unique rocks.  Our kitchen window sill displays a collection of our favorites. It's where I've historically chosen to display them - a place where I can appreciate them during the course of a normal day, every day. And they never cease to make me feel happy inside. Why? Who knows?  I'll venture a guess though...

Perhaps it's because they are proof of the awesome power that exists in the universe, and the beauty that results when something allows itself to change with time. 

In many parts of the world, it is traditional to give small gifts. On my recent trip to China, I chose to take rocks from the canyon near our house, along with a personal message about those rocks. I was assured by friends who have worked and lived in China that the people there would be touched by this small, personal gift. My morning appreciation of our rocks on their window perch inspired me to share the personal message I included with those gifted rocks with you today:


"My daughter and I chose these rocks from many gathered near our home in Southern Utah, just a few minutes from beautiful Zion National Park.  She and I share an admiration for rocks because each one is unique. Like us, each has its own story to tell of how it came to be as it is today, and each will continue to change with time.

To me, rocks are tangible examples of the creative outcomes that result when diverse elements work together to form something unique, beautiful, and useful.

We display rocks as inspiring art in our home and offices, incorporate them into the jewelry we make, and delight in sharing their unique beauty with friends near and far. Today, my wish is that they will inspire you to share a piece of yourself and in turn, inspire someone else."

Today, from the inspiring landscape I call home, I hope you, too, will be inspired to embrace the beauty that comes with change...and share it freely with those who come across you on their hike through life.